When Do Babies Start Teething? Your Go-To Guide for Happy Gums + 12 Soothing Tips!    

A Little Chat About Those First Tiny Teeth

Hey mama, if you’re reading this, I’m guessing those tiny gums are working hard behind the scenes, or maybe you’ve started spotting the drool, the fuss, and the constant need to chew on anything within reach. Teething can feel like a whole new chapter, filled with questions and, let’s be honest, a little bit of worry.

I’ve been in your shoes—one minute it’s all gummy smiles, and the next, it’s sleepless nights and aching little gums. It’s completely normal to feel unsure about what’s happening or when those first teeth will finally show up. That’s exactly what we’ll walk through together today. We’ll chat about when do babies start teething, the signs of teething to watch for, and my favorite, a few tried-and-true tips for baby teething relief to help make this stage a little easier for both of you.

The Teething Timeline: When to Expect Those First Tiny Teeth

One of the first questions that pops into every parent’s mind is, “when do babies start teething?” And honestly, it often feels like it happens overnight. One day your baby is chewing happily on their toys, and the next, there’s a tiny tooth peeking through. But don’t worry, you haven’t missed any secret signs. Every baby goes at their own pace, but there’s a general timeline that most little ones tend to stick to.

Think of the teething timeline as more of a loose guide than a strict schedule. Every baby has their own little rhythm, and those first tiny teeth will make their debut exactly when your little one decides it’s time. This is one of those times where patience really becomes your superpower, mama.

The Average Age for First Teethers

So let’s break it down. Usually, that first little tooth—along with all the classic teething signs—makes its appearance sometime between 4 and 7 months. But—and this is important—it can be earlier or later, and both are totally normal.

• Around 4 months: Some little early birds start drooling more, getting fussier, and chomping on everything. Even if you can’t see a tooth yet, those gums are gearing up behind the scenes.
• Between 5 and 7 months: This is when most babies get their first tooth. It might sneak up on you! One day you’ll feel inside their mouth and, surprise, a tiny sharp little tooth has made its grand entrance. It’s exciting… and yep, a little daunting too.
• After 7 months: Don’t stress if your baby’s still rocking that gummy smile past 7 months. Some perfectly healthy babies wait until 8, 9, even 12 months before that first tooth arrives. My little guy didn’t get his first until around 9 months and, believe me, I was anxious, especially seeing all those other babies showing off their new pearly whites. But sure enough, one popped through… and the rest followed just fine.

Teething Order: Which Little Teeth Show Up First?

Just like there’s a general age range for teething, there’s also a pretty typical order for which teeth decide to make their grand entrance. Of course, every baby has their own little timeline—some like to switch it up (because, let’s face it, babies love keeping us on our toes!). But knowing the usual order can help you figure out what’s coming next and maybe even explain why your little one is extra fussy in certain spots. Most often, it’s those cute little front teeth that come in first, giving your baby that sweet, toothy grin we all can’t resist.

Here’s how it usually goes:

• The bottom front teeth (lower central incisors): are often the first to show up, usually making their debut somewhere between 6 and 10 months. It’s always exciting when those little teeth start to show up!
• Top Front Teeth (Upper Central Incisors): After those first tiny bottom teeth show up, the top front ones are usually next in line. As soon as they come in, your baby’s smile starts to change and it honestly couldn’t be more adorable!
• Top Side Teeth (Upper Lateral Incisors): These little ones sit just next to the top front teeth and often make their appearance between 9 and 13 months.
• Bottom Side Teeth (Lower Lateral Incisors): These follow their upper neighbors, popping up between 10 and 16 months, giving your little one a full set of adorable front teeth, perfect for exploring new foods.
• First Molars (Back Teeth): These are the bigger teeth toward the back of the mouth, and they can cause a little more discomfort as they push through. They tend to pop through somewhere between 13 and 19 months.
• Canines (Pointy Teeth or “Eye Teeth”): These sharp little teeth fill the gap between the side teeth and molars, typically appearing between 16 and 23 months.
• Second Molars (Way Back Teeth): The last ones to join the party, these big back molars usually show up between 23 and 33 months—so yes, teething can stretch well into toddlerhood!

It’s helpful to have an idea of this order, but please, mama—don’t stress if your baby does things differently. Sometimes a molar sneaks in early, or those top teeth come before the bottom ones. It’s all normal. The most important thing? Celebrate each new little tooth like the milestone it is—they’re growing, learning, and that smile is just getting more adorable by the day.

Signs of Teething in Babies: What to Look For (and Listen For!)

Alright mama, we’ve already chatted about when do babies start teething and what that timeline usually looks like. But the big question most of us have is: how do you know if it’s actually teething and not just a cranky day or a growth spurt? I totally remember those moments of second-guessing—wondering if I was reading the signs right.

The truth is, every baby shows signs of teething a little differently, but there are some classic clues most of us parents eventually get familiar with. Let me walk you through the little things to watch for—and even a few things to listen for—that often mean those baby teeth are finally on their way.

Classic Teething Symptoms You Can’t Miss

Here’s where your mama instincts kick in. These are the big, obvious clues that usually have us grabbing the baby’s teething toys, extra bibs, and all the cuddles. If your little one is showing a few of these at the same time, chances are you’re officially entering the baby teething phase.

Drool, Drool, and More Drool: The Constant Bib Changes!

The drool… oh mama, the drool! I had no idea a tiny human could produce that much saliva until I saw it firsthand. It’s often one of the very first and most noticeable clues that your little one is starting to teethe. Their little mouths are working overtime as their bodies prepare for those baby teeth to push through. You’ll probably find yourself changing bibs constantly and wiping little chins all day long.

Quick tips to help:

• Keep a good stash of soft bibs ready—trust me, you’ll use them.
• Gently pat their skin dry (don’t rub—that sensitive skin can get irritated).
• A light layer of baby-safe balm or petroleum jelly can work wonders when it comes to protecting your little one’s skin from drool rash.

Chewing on Everything in Sight

Suddenly your little one is a chewing machine—from their hands to your fingers, to the corner of your shirt, to whatever they can grab. It’s their way of easing that gum pressure, and honestly, gnawing on things just feels good to them. That’s where baby’s teething toys come in handy. Safe, clean, and designed for sore gums, they’ll be your best friend during this stage.

Red, Swollen Gums

If your baby lets you peek inside their mouth (which isn’t always easy, I know!), you might notice their gums looking puffy, red, or even shiny. Sometimes you’ll spot a little white bump under the gum—a sure sign those baby teeth are getting ready to make their grand appearance. And don’t be alarmed if you notice a small bluish-grey bubble near the gumline. It’s called an eruption cyst—it looks scary, but it’s harmless and just part of the baby teething process.

Fussiness and Irritability

Ah yes, the mood swings! One of the toughest signs of teething in babies is when your usually happy, easygoing babe turns clingy, fussy, or downright cranky. It’s so hard seeing them uncomfortable, and it’s even harder when you feel like you can’t fix it.

Sleep Disruptions

You finally got into a good sleep rhythm… and then baby teething arrives to turn it upside down. Sore gums don’t magically stop hurting at bedtime—in fact, lying down sometimes makes it worse. Your little one might wake more often, struggle to settle, or fight naps. Be patient, mama—stick to your bedtime routine, and know this is just a phase (even though it feels endless some nights!).

Mild Fever (But Know What’s Normal)

This one trips a lot of us up. Teething may lead to a mild increase in your baby’s temperature—but it typically doesn’t go over 100.4∘F (38∘C). This mild “teething fever” is normal and linked to the gum inflammation from those baby teeth coming through. But an important reminder: Teething doesn’t cause high fevers, vomiting, or diarrhea. If your baby has these symptoms, it’s best to check in with your pediatrician—it might be something else.

Other Signs of Teething in Babies to Watch For

Not every baby sticks to the classic signs. Some throw in a few extra clues just to keep you guessing. Here are some of the less obvious signs of teething in babies to be aware of:

Ear Tugging

You might catch your baby pulling at their ears, especially on the side where a tooth is pushing through. The gums, jaw, and ear are all connected by nerves, so the discomfort can sometimes feel like it’s in their ears.

Important: Ear pulling is common with baby teething, but it can also mean an ear infection. If your little one has a fever, seems in pain, or you’re just not sure, always check with your pediatrician.

Cheek Rubbing

Cheek rubbing is another cute—and sometimes messy—clue. If your babe is pressing, rubbing, or pushing on their cheeks, it might be their way of easing the pressure from those incoming baby teeth.

Changes in Appetite

Some babies lose interest in solids for a few days when teething flares up—chewing can be uncomfortable on sore gums. Others might nurse or bottle-feed more for the soothing comfort of sucking. If they’re skipping meals but still taking in fluids and staying hydrated, it’s usually nothing to stress over. But trust your gut—if your baby refuses to eat for an extended time, a quick check with your doctor never hurts.

Mama, You’ve Got This

I know how overwhelming baby teething can feel—especially when you’re running on little sleep and just want your little one to feel better. But spotting the signs of teething in babies early means you can help ease their discomfort and ride out this stage a little more smoothly.

Your Secret Weapon: Baby Teething Relief That Actually Helps (From One Mama to Another)

Alright, now that we’ve covered when do babies start teething and how to spot the signs, let’s get to the part every parent really wants to know: how to make it better. Teething can feel like it goes on forever when you’re right in the middle of it. I remember with my first, I kept thinking, “Is this just life now? Sleepless nights, endless drool, cranky baby?” But the truth is, it’s temporary and there are things that can bring your little one (and you!) some relief.

Here’s my go-to list of baby teething relief tricks I’ve picked up along the way—the gentle ones, the practical lifesavers, and the “why didn’t anyone tell me this sooner?” tips.

Hands-On Soothing Tricks That Actually Work

Sometimes, the simplest things bring the most comfort. When it comes to sore gums, gentle pressure and a little coolness go a long way.

Gentle Gum Massage: Your Finger Is Their Best Friend

Think about how good it feels to rub a sore muscle—it’s the same idea for their little gums. Here’s how I do it:

1. Clean hands first, always. Wash your hands thoroughly.
2. Use a clean finger or a soft silicone finger brush—those little ones with gentle nubs are great.
3. Gently rub the sore spot on their gums. A little firm pressure usually feels amazing for them. But if they pull away or fuss more, ease up. You’ll know what they like.

Do this whenever you notice extra fussiness or when they seem desperate to chew on everything. It’s such a simple trick, but it can bring quick comfort—and it’s a great bonding moment too.

Cool Comfort: Chilled (Not Frozen) Teething Helpers

Chilled temperatures can soothe sore gums and help ease swelling. You’ll be surprised at how well this works.

What works well:

• A cool, damp washcloth straight from the fridge. You can even tie a knot in it for extra chewing satisfaction. The soft texture with a little chill feels so good on those sore gums.

Safety reminder: Always supervise your baby while they’re chewing on anything. You know how quickly they can get creative!

Over-the-Counter Help (But Always Ask Your Pediatrician First)

Despite your best efforts, sometimes your baby is just plain miserable. I’ve been there, pacing the room at 2 AM with a crying baby who can’t settle. That’s when you might consider some over-the-counter help—but please, always check with your pediatrician first.

Infant Pain Relief Options:

• Acetaminophen (Infant Tylenol): Often safe for babies over 2-3 months, but dosage depends on their weight and age.
• Ibuprofen (Infant Motrin, Infant Advil): Generally for babies 6 months and up. This one’s great if their gums are swollen and inflamed.

Important: Only use the dropper provided with the medication to avoid dosing mistakes. Your doctor will guide you on how often you can give it, based on your little one’s specific needs.

What NOT to Use for Baby Teething Relief

Some things sound tempting, but they’re just not safe. I know it’s frustrating when nothing seems to help, but trust me, these aren’t worth the risk.

Skip These:

• Teething gels with benzocaine: The FDA warns against these for kids under 2. They can lead to a rare condition that lowers the oxygen in your baby’s blood—pretty frightening, isn’t it?—definitely something you want to avoid! Plus, they numb the whole mouth, which isn’t ideal.
• Homeopathic teething tablets or gels: aren’t recommended—some have been found to contain harmful ingredients like belladonna, which can be dangerous for babies. There have been serious reactions, even hospitalizations. It’s just not worth it.
• Amber teething necklaces or bracelets: They might be trendy, but they pose a real choking and strangulation risk. There’s no real science behind their claimed benefits either.

When it comes to baby teething relief, safe and simple is always the best way to go.

Comfort and Distraction: Sometimes It’s About the Snuggles

Let’s be real—sometimes the only thing that helps is YOU.

Cuddles and Comfort

Plenty of cuddles, cozy skin-to-skin time, gentle rocking, and soft, reassuring words can bring so much comfort. Your little one finds the most comfort in your arms, mama. Don’t ever feel bad about holding them more during teething—you’re their safe place.

Distraction Is Powerful

A fun distraction can work magic when nothing else seems to help.

• Get their favorite toy out.
• Sing a silly song.
• Go outside for fresh air.
• Head out for a stroller ride or a little outing to the park.

Sometimes, simply getting out of the house is the perfect reset for both of you.

Teething-Friendly Foods for Older Babies

If your little one has started solids, some chilled snacks can work wonders—they soothe sore gums and keep little hands busy. Total win for those rough teething days!

Cool Snacks to Try:

• Frozen fruit in a silicone feeder: Think berries, mango, or pineapple—pop them in a baby-safe feeder for a soothing, tasty treat.
• Cold plain yogurt (6+ months): Thick and creamy—perfect for sore little mouths.
• Cucumber sticks: Chilled, perfect for little hands to hold, and soothing on sore gums.
• Frozen breast milk or formula pops: Pop these in a silicone mold or mesh feeder—calming and familiar.
• Banana slices or melon sticks: Chilled and cut into baby-friendly, easy-to-hold pieces.

Food	Suggested Serving
Frozen fruit in silicone feeder	A few small pieces inside
Cold plain yogurt (6+ months)	A small bowl
Cucumber sticks	2-3 finger-length sticks
Frozen breast milk/formula pops	1-2 small pops
Chilled banana slices	2-3 slices, easy to hold
Soft melon sticks	2-3 finger-length pieces

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Quick Tip: Some babies love snacks when teething, others just want cuddles and milk—both are perfectly okay. Keep offering breast milk or formula regularly to stay hydrated and comforted.

It’s All About Finding What Works for Your Baby

The truth is, every baby is different—what works wonders for one might not work for another. You might need to try a few different baby teething relief tricks before you figure out what your little one loves best. The most important thing? You’re showing up. You’re paying attention. You’re already doing so much to comfort them through this. It’s tough, I won’t sugarcoat it. But one day soon, that first tooth will pop through, and before you know it, they’ll be flashing that adorable, toothy grin—and you’ll know you got through it together.

FAQ Section

Q: When do babies start teething with their first tooth? A: While every baby is unique, most babies start showing signs of teething and cutting their first tooth between 4 and 7 months of age. Some little ones get going sooner, others take their time—it’s all perfectly normal!

Q: What are the usual signs that your baby might be teething? A: Look out for increased drooling, fussiness, wanting to chew on everything, red or swollen gums, and sometimes mild changes in sleep or appetite.

Q: What are some safe and effective baby teething relief methods? A: Gentle gum massage with a clean finger, offering chilled (not frozen!) teething rings or wet washcloths, and providing safe teething toys are great starting points. For pain relief, always consult your pediatrician about appropriate over-the-counter options like infant acetaminophen or ibuprofen. Avoid teething gels with benzocaine, homeopathic remedies, and amber necklaces due to safety concerns.

Q: How long does the teething process typically last for each tooth? A: The actual process of a tooth breaking through the gum can vary, but the most intense signs of teething in babies usually last for a few days before and after the tooth emerges. The whole teething journey—from that very first tooth to the last molars (usually showing up around age 2 or 3)—can stretch over a couple of years. Just hang in there, keep offering comfort, and remind yourself this phase won’t last forever!howing up around age 2 or 3)—can stretch over a couple of years. Just hang in there, keep offering comfort, and remind yourself this phase won’t last forever!